We ask the questions
people usually avoid.
Our surveys explore how people actually think, feel, want, relate, and behave around bodies, sex, desire, relationships, identity, intimacy, social conditioning, and the rules we inherit.
The point isn't to tell you what's normal. It's to look past what people think they're supposed to say and explore what they're actually experiencing.
Pick a question
worth exploring.
Your Sexual Self
A broad look at desire, sexuality, relationships, and how you experience your sexual self.
What Shaped Your Sexual Self?
Explore how family, culture, religion, peers, media, expectations, shame, and experience helped shape what you learned about sex.
The Sex Life You Want and the One You Have
Desire, frequency, satisfaction, expectations, and the gap between the sex life people have and the one they actually want.
What Actually Turns You On?
Fantasy, arousal, desire, attraction, and the difference between what happens in a fantasy and what actually makes it exciting.
Desire & Sexual Satisfaction
A deeper look at sexual desire, satisfaction, frequency, expectations, and the differences between wanting sex and enjoying the sex you have.
A lot of what we believe about sex, relationships, identity, desire, and human behavior comes from ideas we absorb long before we think to question them.
GET NKD is interested in the messier question:
What happens when we question them?
These surveys help us explore patterns, contradictions, differences, and experiences that can help shape future GET NKD articles, conversations, and research.
Participation is for adults 18 and older and is voluntary. These surveys are for research and exploration, not diagnosis or personal assessment. Responses may be analyzed and reported in aggregate or de-identified form.